MORGANTOWN – Two 77-year-old men say they were switched at birth, and they blame the staff at a hospital operated by the Catholic church for the mix-up.
John William Carr III and Jackie Lee Spencer filed their lawsuit recently against the Catholic Diocese of Wheeling-Charleston in Monongalia Circuit Court. Joining them as plaintiffs are wives Bonnie Lynn Carr and Phyllis Ann Spencer as well as adopted son Zackery Stealth Carr.
“These men and their families are caused to wonder and speculate as to how all their lives would have been different had the hospital error not interceded,” the complaint states. “The questions are many, the feelings extraordinarily strong and very often conflicting.
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“These people have been traumatized by the discovery of this error from so long ago, at the very beginning of their lives. It challenges their sense of identity and the loss of a lifetime of belonging is a grievous loss to bear. They need and deserve professional help to process the emotional toll of what happened and to help them reconcile themselves.”
The Diocese has filed a motion to dismiss, claiming the statute of limitations has passed. Morgantown attorney Charles J. Crooks, who is representing the men and their families, said he is preparing a response to that answer.
“They’re aware of the status of the litigation,” Crooks told The West Virginia Record. “They know there are no guarantees. They’re 77 … they’ll be 78 later this month. They’re living in hope that they’ll be some justice for what was done to them. Time and the judicial system will tell us something.
“Our position is that our claims didn’t accrue until my clients find out the birth certificates were misrepresentations. That’s when you start the statute of limitations.”
Crooks said he knows the case and the story behind it are fascinating. He said the technology that made it possible is key.
“It’s a remarkable case inasmuch as the advent of genetic analysis,” Crooks told The Record. “This is something that revolutionized our society in a number of directions. Just in terms of justice, people on death row have been cleared of crimes based on this type of evidence.
“These are good people. What is this case worth? What do you even consider if they approach us with a settlement offer? Where do you start to put a value on what has happened to these people?”
According to the complaint, the men both were born August, 29, 1942, at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Buckhannon.
They say the obstetrical and or nursing staff negligently “switched the aforesaid male newborn infants and sent them home with each other’s families; there is no other plausible explanation.”
The men say they weren’t fully aware of the switch until July 2019. DNA sequence analysis revealed the men were genetic matches with each other’s families but not the families that raised them. They used 23andMe, AncestryDNA and Quest Diagnostics to confirm the results.
The men say their families had no interactions and were strangers to each other, and they say neither family “ever suggested to them they might have been switched at the hospital shortly after birth.”
Jack Spencer, who lives in Spotsylvania, Virginia, was the first to have genetic analysis. He and his wife had been trying to locate Shirley Lee Spencer, the man identified on his birth certificate as his father. Shirley Lee Spencer abandoned the family before the boy was born. The woman listed on his birth certificate as his mother, Virginia Hamrick, took Jack to her parent’s farm in Webster County to raise him while she went to work.
At the grandparents’ farm, Jack joined five of his supposed aunts and uncles who still were minors at the farm. He didn’t see his supposed birth mother much. When he was five years old, she told Jack she was getting married. But Jack remained on the farm.
Jack says he often asked his supposed mother about his supposed father, but she didn’t tell him much until he was 11. Then, she gave Jack a photo of Shirley Lee Spencer and told him he was from the Beckley area. Jack says he asked others about Shirley Lee Spencer, but no one offered useful information.
Jack and Phyllis Spencer married in 1968. They tried to track down information about Shirley Lee Spencer, but they were not successful. So, they focused on their new family. His supposed birth mother moved in with them in 1986, and she lived with them until she died in 2003. That same year, Jack and Phyllis Spencer’s daughter Marci began her own search for information about Shirley Lee Spencer.
“She had waited until that time out of respect to her grandmother,” the complaint states. “Marci thought it would make a wonderful Christmas gift if she could present her dad with details on his dad."
She asked all of Jack’s supposed aunts and uncles for information. She also placed an ad in the Beckley Register-Herald with the photo of Shirley Lee Spencer asking “Does anyone know this man?” A hobbyist private investigator responded, and they worked together to try to track down information. Marci made phone contact with some of Shirley Spencer’s children and gave Jack a packet for Christmas.
Jack then contacted Shirley’s daughter Reba, who put him in touch with her brother Billy. Jack and Billy had a DNA test done to confirm the connection, but the analysis said they did not share the same biological father.
“Jack and Phyllis were stunned,” the complaint states. “Jack decided that was leading nowhere and frustrated, he and Phyllis once again put it all aside.”
In late 2017, Jack and Phyllis both decided to learn more about their ethnicity through Ancestry DNA kits. One of Jack’s presumed first cousins had done a test, so they figured they would see her on Jack’s report. When the results didn’t show the cousin, they again were surprised.
Then, in 2019, Jack’s last supposed uncle died. As cousins visited for the services, they began discussing DNA and tests that were available. Some had 23andMe testing done and said they felt it was superior to Ancestry DNA. Phyllis then ordered a 23andMe kid for Jack. When the results came back, none of the cousins were listed in the database.
Phyllis looked at the Ancestry DNA report again, which listed a full sibling for Jack named Betty May Carr. They dismissed it as a mistake again.
But, one of the people Phyllis had contacted through 23andMe’s email replied saying he was confidentially looking for his father and thought Jack might share some ancestors with him.
The next day, Phyllis spoke to the man on the phone. He asked her questions about people on the family tree of Betty May Carr, and he wanted to know Jack’s mother’s name as well as when and where Jack was born. The next day, the man called again.
“Did you tell me Jack was switched at the hospital?” the man asked her, to which she replied, “No, we don’t know that, but we wonder if it was possible.”
“Well, you don’t have to wonder anymore,” he replied. He said he spent hours going through records at the Upshur County Courthouse in Buckhannon and learned the two boys were born the same day at St. Joseph’s. He gave Phyllis names, addresses and phone numbers of Carr family members, including John Carr.
Phyllis called John and explained how Betty had shown up on Jack’s report as a full sibling and how she suspected Jack and John had been switched at the hospital. She explained their decades-long search for answers about Jack’s family.
“Well, I never felt like I fit in here because my mother and dad had brown hair and brown eyes and so do my brother and sister,” John Carr told her. Phyllis told him Jack’s mother and all 12 of her siblings had blue eyes, but Jack had brown hair and brown eyes.
John Carr ordered a 23andMe test. On August 18, 2019, the results came back. John Carr’s test confirmed he and Jack Spencer had been sent home with each other’s families. And all of Jack Spencer’s supposed first cousins shows up on John Carr’s report as his first cousins.
John Carr’s supposed father was a farmer in Upshur County. He often told the boy “he must be a bastard and would accuse John’s (supposed) mother of infidelity.”
Carr, who lives in Tallmansville in Upshur County, said his alleged father was cruel to him, causing him to live in constant fear of physical, verbal and emotional abuse. In the complaint, he also details childhood stories when he thinks his supposed father tried to kill him, once by trying to run over him with a tractor.
“John W. Carr. Jr. never just whipped John,” the complaint states. “He beat him. He used his fists, feet, razor strap, hickory limbs, a belt. More than once, John had blood running from his legs, back and head. He actually cut holes in John’s clothes with a limb.”
He also recalled a beating he suffered after a dairy cattle show that his sister had won the year before. When John finished second, he returned to the stall to tie up the cow.
“His father came out of nowhere and hit him in the head with his fist, knocking John down under his cow and started kicking him,” the complaint states. “The cow became excited and joined in on the kicking. John was beaten so bad he could not breathe right for a few months.”
On his 18th birthday, John Carr left home and joined the United States Marines. He and Bonnie married in 1964. She suffers health problems, which have returned following the revelation of her husband being switched at birth. They also have an adopted 31-year-old son who relies on them for care because of health issues.
“A mystery was solved at least,” the complaint states. “Still, the resolution brought mixed emotions. Jack is grateful to finally know the truth but devastated to learn that his life of more than 77 years was so dramatically altered from what it should have been.
“Many of the people Jack should have known his entire life are gone. He feels as though most of his family died all at once. He grieves for the loss of the life he was supposed to have while reconciling those feelings with the love and gratitude he feels for the family he has known his whole life. …
“John cannot help but feel that if the staff at St. Joseph Hospital in Buckhannon had not switched Jackie Lee Spencer and John, both of their lives would have been much better. Maybe not a bed of roses but a better life with the right families. …
“The plaintiffs have all suffered a lifetime of consequences from the negligence that sent Jack and John home with the wrong parents. … This should not and did not have to happen. A lapse of reasonable care … altered the life courses of both men and their families.”
The plaintiffs seek compensatory damages. The case has been assigned to Circuit Judge Phillip Gaujot.
Monongalia Circuit Court case number 20-C-159